Sunday, February 20, 2011

Forgiven

So I finally decided to forgive my laptop.

I'm usually not one to hold a grudge very long (average grudge time: overnight). But I have been harboring bad feelings towards this Compaq for about 2 months now.

So what was the offense, you may be asking. Well, let me tell you...

In December, as I was trying to order one of my favorite Christmas gifts (the black boots pictured below)...

...and my computer was going so S L O W. It kept timing out and I had to keep re-entering my credit card info, it was so infuriating. But never fear I finally got the boots ordered...but not after about an hour of frustration.

Then every day after that the Internet kept timing out and the laptop was running so incredibly S L O W. Not just slow, but slower than molasses left outside in January.

THEN after Christmas break in January, I got a notice from my bank stating that our account was low on funds...this was right after payday and we hadn't spent a dime! So I looked online and found out that someone (someone who wasn't Steve or I) had spent over $300 at an online store called Threadless.com. WHAT???? And get this, there was also a$1 charge to paypal (who we don't use) a $1.00 charge to google.com (who we don't buy things from) and a $.02 charge to some UK.com. DING DING DING all sorts of alarms going off: FRAUD!

So I immediately called up my bank and reported the fraudulant charges. "Oh don't worry, Mrs. Duncan, you caught the charges early. You are so lucky they didn't milk you for more! But don't worry, you are 100% covered against all fraudulant charges...But we can't do anything until they actually clear your account. Right now they are just pending. But don't worry we'll cancel your card right away so you don't get any more fraudulant charges...You'll get a new one in about 5 to 7 business days..." So not only was I stressed about the charges (not to mention I felt very violated and felt my privacy had been invaded), a lot of our money was tied up until the charges were resolved. AND I was left without a card for a week! So frustrating!

Naturally I blamed the Compaq because that was the last computer I used to make an online purchase and we had been having problems with our anti-virus/hacking software. So of course I gave the laptop the silent treatment and stuck to the Apple and iphone to do any online transactions. I could tell the Compaq was jealous with my affairs with the other technology. But I just couldn't bring myself to use the computer that had allowed some good outstanding citizen to be unable to resist tempation and use our bank account to make purchases that they were obviously unable to make for themselves. (funny side note: when I called threadless.com to tell them about the purchase they actually said, "Oh we get calls about this all the time"...hmmm maybe you should put some more protection on your website!)

Of course, we got all of our money back and I got a new card and we moved on. Steve was able to update our protection software and I worked on forgiving the Compaq. The breaking point came when I received a letter in the mail from UConn saying that their online store security had been breached and that I should take measures to protect my bank account....and I remembered that I had made a purchase through them (on the PC, NOT the laptop) when I was working on my masters.

Culprit found and apprehended. So of course I felt bad and I had to forgive the Compaq and make-up. And what better way than to blog for several hours!

So scroll down and enjoy the 17 blog posts.

Gosh, a lot can happen in 2 months.

Happy Birthday Mere Mere!

On February 18th, the sisters went out to celebrate Mere's birthday. We went out to a great Japanese sushi bar and grill, Tepanyaki. So fun! Despite my lack of desire to eat fish, I was a sport and caught a piece of shrimp when the chef tossed them in the air.


Bethany & Camilley



Our chef




Mere & I drinking miso & onion soup


Warmer Weather...

Valentines Weekend we headed down to St. George to visit Steve's parents and enjoy the warmer weather. While down there, we took a jaunt down to Las Vegas to visit Steve's lovely sister Marilyn and take in the sites...such as my favorite store (H&M) and the kids favorite store: the M&M Store.




Waiting for the 3-D movie







James discovers the art of climbing trees







Molly takes a turn climbing the tree






Molly finds a stick just her size

Another tooth...


2nd tooth: January 9, 2011

Finally, a Utah Snow Storm

On the 29th, Utah finally got a real snow storm. The kids were more than happy to help Steve shovel the driveway.








Potty Training





Need I say more???


Christmas 2010


Christmas Eve Jammies



Christmas Morning







As usual, the box is more fun than the actual toy


Molly got dress ups and make-up


James found a new use for the "darts" from his dart gun

Unresistable

This was just so cute I couldn't resist posting it...


Duncan Christmas Party

And no Christmas Season would be complete without the annual Duncan Christmas party...complete with Disney's Sing-a-long...so awesome!

Steve with baby Kate (grand-niece)



Steve looking his best


James with cousin Kyla



The gang



More of the gang




Molly opening her present...dress ups!





Buzz Lightyear coloring pad...perfect!





Molly trying out her dress-ups

Such a big girl...

Molly has taken to dressing herself lately. I often come home to find her in outfits such as these...




The Christmas Cards that Never were...

If you didn't get a Christmas Card from us this year, don't feel bad...neither did anyone else.

I really did try to get cards out. I even got addresses...it just didn't happen. But I did have pictures taken by my awesome sister Camilley in preparation for sending cards out, so the intention was there....

Which picture would you have choosen???









But don't give up on a receiving a card just yet...you just might get a card when you least expect it.... :)

Christmas Traditions

This year we tried to keep with some of the traditions we started as a family, with minor adjustments.

Instead of reading The Forgotten Carols, Steve and I were able to attend a production of it at Cottonwood High School. It has always been a favorite tradition of mine as it helps set the tone of the Christmas season.

The kids were also able to decorate gingerbread cookies instead of houses


Notice how most of her cookie is pink...

Stars were streaming, Shephards gleaming...

At least I think that's how the carol goes...At the ward Christmas Breakfast, James had the opportunity to play a shephard in a Nativity Scene. He was so excited about it.





Molly got to sit on Santa's lap and tell him all she wanted for Christmas: pink legos, pink baby, pink vacuum, pink gun...everything she asked for had to be pink...

Date Night

Steve and I finally got out for a date. We went and saw BYU's International Folk Dancers as they performed dances from around the world. It almost made me wish I had gone to BYU and joined the team...ALMOST... :)